How Cal Newport Would Conquer Holiday Work Stress
If there were one person I’d want as a mentor, it’s Cal Newport. While I can't claim to know precisely how he'd approach the festive season, here’s my take on how his principles could be applied to conquer holiday work stress…
The Power of Perspective: How Reframing Your 2024 Story Can Change Your 2025
As you reflect on 2024, consider taking a more intentional approach to telling your story – one that empowers you and sets the stage for a fulfilling year ahead.
It’s Cliche, But It’s Important: Burned Out Physicians, Let’s Give Gratitude
Admittedly, one of my colleagues was figuratively tarred and feathered by (likely burned out) members of her own division when she suggested what I’m about to tell you…
The "Nope" Days: A Guide to Flaking Out Without Freaking Out
Every few months, my urge to flake out becomes too strong to overcome.
What To Do When You Just Don’t Know
Nothing’s gone wrong when our brains think they can’t come up with answers to complex questions.
Tenacity vs. Stubbornness: Knowing When to Hold 'Em, When to Fold 'Em
The very tenacity that’s helped us achieve great things can morph into something much less helpful: stubbornness
The Dalai Lama, My Grandma, and Letting Go of Worry
There are worse people to emulate than the Dalai Lama.
Breaking the Multitasking Myth: A Path to Peace for Women Physicians
Women physicians are in the habit of multitasking. But what if I told you that it’s holding us back?
Jagged Little Pills: My Car Karaoke Catharsis and the Science of Completing the Stress Cycle
Just because the stress is over, does not mean the stress is done.
Finding Mercy From the Grip of Anxiety
Remember that childhood game where you'd lock hands and try to force the other person's wrists to bend backward until they cried out, "Mercy!"? It was brutal, looking back. How was that a thing? How was that what passed as “fun”?
Where I Was Raised: Confronting Physician Suicide in National Suicide Prevention Month
Don't wait for your institution to change, be the change. Reach out to someone who supports your mental well-being, or be that person for someone else.
When Empathy Hurts: Navigating Compassion Fatigue Inside (and Outside) Medicine
It's easy to feel compassion for the distant struggles we witness. But what about when it hits home? When it's your own family that needs your care?
Three Hiding-In-Plain-Sight Truths About Receiving Feedback
I will say something that is profane in academic medicine...
The Tyranny of Self-Reliance: Unpacking the Perils of People-Pleasing
Taking one for the team can have a dark side.
To Stay or To Go: When Cutting Back Hours Isn't the Answer
If your circumstances can’t change, maybe the way to deal with them is to be in them less often.