Tenacity vs. Stubbornness: Knowing When to Hold 'Em, When to Fold 'Em
The very tenacity that’s helped us achieve great things can morph into something much less helpful: stubbornness
The Dalai Lama, My Grandma, and Letting Go of Worry
There are worse people to emulate than the Dalai Lama.
Breaking the Multitasking Myth: A Path to Peace for Women Physicians
Women physicians are in the habit of multitasking. But what if I told you that it’s holding us back?
Jagged Little Pills: My Car Karaoke Catharsis and the Science of Completing the Stress Cycle
Just because the stress is over, does not mean the stress is done.
Finding Mercy From the Grip of Anxiety
Remember that childhood game where you'd lock hands and try to force the other person's wrists to bend backward until they cried out, "Mercy!"? It was brutal, looking back. How was that a thing? How was that what passed as “fun”?
Where I Was Raised: Confronting Physician Suicide in National Suicide Prevention Month
Don't wait for your institution to change, be the change. Reach out to someone who supports your mental well-being, or be that person for someone else.
When Empathy Hurts: Navigating Compassion Fatigue Inside (and Outside) Medicine
It's easy to feel compassion for the distant struggles we witness. But what about when it hits home? When it's your own family that needs your care?
Three Hiding-In-Plain-Sight Truths About Receiving Feedback
I will say something that is profane in academic medicine...
The Tyranny of Self-Reliance: Unpacking the Perils of People-Pleasing
Taking one for the team can have a dark side.
To Stay or To Go: When Cutting Back Hours Isn't the Answer
If your circumstances can’t change, maybe the way to deal with them is to be in them less often.
When the Worst Doesn't Happen
I speak fluent snark. “Dark and twisty” is my love language.
Capturing the Ease of Summer Vacation (Year-Round)
Think back to your last summer vacation. What made it so great? How can you incorporate those things into daily life now?
How Journaling Can Unlock Your Thoughts and Transform Your Life
Try it, find out what you’re thinking, and figure out what it means.
Ditching the Dopamine Hits: How to Break Free from Buffering and Face Challenges Head-On
“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”
When Life Gets Too "Life-y": My Top 5 Strategies for Navigating the Chaos
Just like life ratchets up slowly to reach infuriating levels, it can’t be flipped back to the best-case scenario in the blink of an eye.
The Arrival Fallacy: Embracing the 'New Year' Shine (and Finding Glimmers When It Fades)
Happy New Year! It's the first week of July, the time of year we all collectively level up in academic medicine.
Confessions of a POP Rewards Member: Why I Finally Hired a Professional Organizer
I was POP Rewards member (IYKYK) with junk drawers and entire junk closets 🤫
Life Coaching: LuLaRoe for the Brain or a Path to Transformation?
Am I in a cult? Am I peddling loud-patterned leggings for the soul?